Category: Getting to Know You
Hey all. Sup. Do you hide your true identity. Like theres some guys that are gay who does not want any one to know and and in the other hand theres some guys that are proud of who they are. Same goes for girls. In my opinion its better to tell everyone and be happy of who you are, than to hide it.
Lol I like being a girl and I would not change it.
So, are you happy of your gender or your identity?
I've been out as a lesbian for well over a year now, but I've known for quite a bit longer than that. I'm definitely not ashamed of who I am, and I won't hide it if someone asks. However, it's not something that I announce when first meeting someone; after all, I do believe that a little discretion is needed sometimes. as for my gender, I'm fairly happy with it. I've accepted the fact that I fit neither the butch or femme stereotypes, so I'm generally content with that. I have a rather tomboyish personality, and I doubt that will ever change, but I certainly wouldn't want to change my gender because of it. :-)
i'm definitely proud of who i am.
No though in certain situations it is safer to pretend..in saying that I am not noticably Bi..but no, with the right people, I'm out and proud and definately up for the crack.smile
if i was given one day to be someone else. i would rather be myself.
Glad to hear it pal..smile
oh yes thanks pal but yes i know some people keep there true self intact in a closet.
I have to keep my true self intact in a closet or my family would bloody hate me. I hate my name because it means pure and yielding and I don't believe I'm either of those, I hate my hair because no lads fancy me because it's very dark and not Blonde which I keep telling everyone who won't ever listen to me even though the need to, that's what the boys prefer, but I am having my hair glossed next weekend, haa haa haa! I just want to be a normal human being but i honestly think my family're trying to turn me in to the queen of England or something. Honestly! If I wanted to be someone else for a day, I think it'd either be my friend Kay, the zone's one and only spider, Harry Potter or Proffessor Dumbledore.
Well even if it is not about being homosexual ... for example I am honest about who I am, what I look like - just to avoid illusions for the people I am talking to. Because if I said "I am looking all right" and someone meets me then and I am very heavy built, they might be disappointed.
i'm perfectly happy, i don't mind who i am, i'd rather be a boy in some ways, as they don't have to deal with half the things women do, but hey, i'm happy with it. i'm straight, and in fact engaged. Sometimes jenny trust me, it isn't good to be me. i go for people with decent personalities, not whether someone's got brown hair and red eyes. image is everything these days, but i think with that, people forget the person inside, which i feel is wrong.
Yeah in one point I would like to be a boy too: If boys are a bit heavily built ... nobody really minds that. When girls are heavily built that is already meaning they are fat. Meh. Lol
i agree ines lol
But I guess I would be a kind of boy whom they call a softy. Hahahaha.
Well it's true both of you. The lads want the looks, not the personality to be just right.